"So, there were points where there'd be romantic spots where we would get romantic and be very comfortable, and then I think life and working elsewhere other than the show kinda just pulled us apart.We were mostly friends for the most part."Despite Brescia's statements, it's clear Patridge had serious feelings for the reality star, even admitting that she felt "hurt" when he and Cavallari started to fake date for the show."Before that even happened, Kristin and her boyfriend and me and Justin would go on double dates and we'd go to parties, so it was really weird for me," she confessed.From on-and-off screen romances to rocky friendships, Patridge was not shy about spilling secrets with us, including her infamous relationship with Justin Brescia (aka "Justin Bobby.")According to Patridge, who says she wore her heart on her sleeve "most of the time," the two were seeing each other before the show began production."We were dating, and then he filmed with me [the] first season that never aired," she explained. He came to my very first apartment -- I think it was before I even met Heidi [Montag] and Lauren [Conrad], really -- and we filmed doing my hair or something.""And then we didn't really talk until third season, we started hanging out again and he was kind of entertaining the idea of filming," she continued."It was hard with Justin towards the end with him and Kristin [Cavallari] and all that stuff."That "stuff" she's referring to is a party scene in which her and Cavallari got into a "fake" fight over Brescia while filming at Heidi and Spencer Pratt’s house, which we found out was, sadly, also fake.He's not super metro." PHOTOS: The most memorable moments on The Hills Patridge also admitted that it can be "hard" being in a long distance relationship."Whenever he's in different countries it's opposite time, so we won't even talk to each other on the phone for like five days," she said." PHOTOS: How the Hills stars have changed Even so, Patridge revealed that they don't have an anniversary."We've been off and on for almost five years, but we've been solid," she said.
So, what we were going through on the show was different than the real life stuff."When ET chatted with Brescia, however, he squashed any rumors of a romance with Patridge, telling us that he never really dated the brunette beauty."No, I mean, we worked a lot together and we traveled a lot together, so we had a lot of hours together and we became really good friends," he explained.
I got used to it eventually, but probably the hardest ones to watch were the crying scenes, just whenever I got emotional and [would] cry."Ten years later, Patridge feels like she's "all grown up now." She’s engaged to BMX rider Corey Bohan, and the two are expecting their first child together, a baby girl, in July.